拖ㄊㄨㄛtuō兒ㄦˊér帶ㄉㄞˋdài女ㄋㄩˇnǚ

  1. 比喻人生旅途的辛苦或生活的艱難。也作「拖男帶女」、「拖男挾女」。

英supporting a wife and children, dragged down by having a family to feed