ㄖㄨˊㄖㄣˊㄧㄣˇㄕㄨㄟˇrúrényǐnshuǐㄌㄥˇㄋㄨㄢˇˋlěngnuǎn‑zìzhī

如人饮水,冷暖自知
  1. 如同一般冷暖只有自己知道比喻親身經歷才能領會其中滋味 婚姻生活酸甜苦辣如人飲水,冷暖自知」。

the person who drinks it knows best whether the water is hot or cold (Zen proverb)​; self-awareness comes from within, to know best by personal experience