想ㄒㄧㄤˇxiǎng開ㄎㄞkāi

凡事多從好的方面想，而不鑽牛角尖。《紅樓夢·第一一回》：「你只管這麼想著，病那裡能好呢？總要想開了纔是。」

英to get over (a shock, bereavement etc), to avoid dwelling on unpleasant things, to accept the situation and move on