ㄨㄟˊwéiˋào

  1. 違背反抗不順儒林外史·三八》:和尚聽見保正老爺吩咐不敢違拗一家進去。」紅樓夢·》:小廝不敢違拗只得寶玉大板。」

to disobey, to defy, deliberately going against (rule, convention, sb's wishes etc)​
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